You booked a day and time.  Now what do you do? 

 

DEPOSIT

All appointments, even repeat appointments with regulars, require a 50% deposit as soon as our day and time is chosen. The balance is due in cash upon arrival, before we begin, not at the end of the playtime.

The deposit cements the appointment. I do not begin planning for our activities or put the appointment in my schedule, leaving the window open to others, if I do not have a deposit.

Deposits are not refundable if you cancel. The time when I could have booked another person needs to be covered. IF I have room in my schedule, I can reschedule you to a different day, within 7 days of our original date, which I try my best to do. It is not in the best interest of a dominatrix to NOT meet a potential sub and begin what could be more play in the future, or to be helpful for moral reasons.

At the same time, my time needs to be respected.

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I accept: Cashapp. Ask me for these instructions, should you wish to send this way.

Amazon gift cards sent electronically to michellelacy85@yahoo.com, Amazon gift cards bought with cash in a store, and the code under the removable foil on the back sent to me in a clear photo to prevent mistyping it.

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I DO NOT take: Paypal, Zelle, or Venmo.

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If I am in a city where I may be renting a dungeon from another Mistress for our time together, I may need to pay the studio in advance to hold the room.

Until you deposit, my mind is not on your session. This means I am not preparing for your session mentally (coming up with amazing ideas for our time together) or physically (going out to buy something I need for it, arranging furniture in the studio a certain way, repairing that special latex hood, ordering something off of the internet). It is as if we do not have one at all.

 

Deposits are 50% of the total tribute. So if your appointment is $1,000, the deposit is $500, and you arrive with $500 cash. I dislike people showing up expecting to pay the balance electronically. I will accept this in some circumstances. 

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4+ Hour appointments require the entire tribute up-front. This is a large amount of time I am blocking my schedule out, and a missed appointment with a 50% deposit does not cover other potential appointments, especially since I am booked far in advance. I CANNOT schedule others on short notice.

 

I also do take credit cards for appointments, but only with those who can give me a long, positive session history with other Mistresses who I am able to contact for the reference. There are fees involved. 

 

PROCEDURE AFTER DEPOSIT: 

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You will be given my booking number.

You MUST confirm 2 hours prior to our time together via text or a call, and you will receive the address. If I do not hear from you at the 90 min mark, I will reach out via email to see what is going on. If I hear nothing by the 1 hour mark, our appointment is canceled.

My booking line can absolutely be used to ask questions (as can email), but do not abuse my booking line with frequent, “excited” texts. A phone call to ease your nerves is appropriate as well, or to discuss deep logistics of a very involved play experience.  If you would like to play over the phone or via webcam before our appointment, I would be happy to schedule this with you.

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PREPARE FOR OUR TIME/ARRIVAL INSTRUCTIONS

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Shower. Shave if you need to (especially for CBT). There is a shower here if you wish to use it before we play; just ask. If you are a slut, prepare for that internally (endless how-to's online available). 

My studio is in a quiet, very safe location. While undergoing some reno and changes, it is spacious, clean, and comfortable. I will have ice water here if you need to hydrate; feel free to bring your fave non-alcoholic beverage to sip on if you wish.

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ARRIVAL

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Do not arrive in a collar, a rubber, or a sissy outfit; do not kneel outside the door. I expect respect and discretion. Once inside, you are safe to let that side of you out, appropriately.

The perfect time of arrival is no sooner than 5 minutes before our scheduled time. Never arrive in the area early expecting me to take you earlier. Most often, I can't, I planned my day around arriving at my studio at a precise time to prepare to see you. IF you find yourself in the area very early, tell me, and if I happen to be available to take you immediately, I will let you know, but do not make this an expectation. Never arrive early and wait outside the studio or other locations. This invades my privacy, the privacy of a slave bringing me items from an errand, or someone leaving from their appointment. 

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I plan for some talking before we begin, and for some after. If you need to shower before leaving, you absolutely can, and take your time.

If we have an intense appointment, you should eat first, so you do not have a blood sugar crash and pass out. Nerves can make you not want to eat all day, this is a very bad idea.

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GIFTS

Some people want to bring me something as a token of their appreciation. This is very sweet but by no means expected or mandatory.

I run on coffee, not alcohol.

I love Starbucks. I appreciate a gift card to a local spa or nice restaurant. A TIP is always appreciated as well.

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FINALLY

If you show up intoxicated or under the influence of drugs, I will not see you.