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The Madonna-Wh0re Complex, and BDSM
After being a busy as heck, successful dominatrix for 20 years, I can say that I have met many thousands of kinky men in my career. Large numbers have been the people I have seen for private sessions, and countless others are those I have had deep discussions with. Most of the people who book a dominatrix are married. Others are partnered up on and off, as is normal in life. They almost all do not have kink at home for various reasons. Usually this is because their partner is
Michelle Lacy
10 minutes ago4 min read
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Creating and Running the Order of Indomitus
For 11 years I have been running the Order of Indomitus, a very popular and world-famous weekend-long immersive femdom event. This has inspired many people to create their own immersive events and has also piqued the curiosity of many others who wonder about having their own similar type of event someday. With the 10th anniversary passing in 2025 and gearing up for our 2026 event, I decided to write an informative blog post about what it took to create Indomitus, the challeng
Michelle Lacy
2 hours ago13 min read
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Overnight with a Mistress
There is something very mystical and intriguing about the idea of being with a Mistress all night in her studio. Many people book overnight appointments, and many others are curious about them. What kind of magic is happening overnight that is not happening in a regular afternoon appointment? What are you missing out on? Most people contact me for a wild, lengthy experience. Part of my professionalism, and something I pride myself on, is crafting an incredible experience for
Michelle Lacy
Mar 147 min read
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Mid Jan Update
My appointment special for early January has ended and it was a lot of fun. My only regret was not having enough time to stop at the beach with OOI-066, but perhaps at another time. January will conclude with me visiting the Siren House at the end of the month for private scenes, the Service School, and the Sadist Dinner/ play party. I am very much looking forward to this. Feb will be when the Delray studio kitchen and other renovations happen. I do not have exact dates yet,
Michelle Lacy
Jan 111 min read
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