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The Order of Indomitus, the GAUNTLET of service events
The Order of Indomitus is a weekend-long, world-famous service event running since 2015. It was the first high-protocol, multiple-day servitude event in the US. It has since inspired many lifestyle groups, and some women have created their own events in the spirit of Indomitus. Our next event is Oct 2026, and only people who pass the application process, receive our exact dates. Besides high-protocol and lots of service, the event is full of lots of femdom fun. We have games
Michelle Lacy
3 hours ago7 min read
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The Madonna-Wh0re Complex, and BDSM
After being a busy as heck, successful dominatrix for 20 years, I can say that I have met many thousands of kinky men in my career. Large numbers have been the people I have seen for private sessions, and countless others are those I have had deep discussions with. Most of the people who book a dominatrix are married. Others are partnered up on and off, as is normal in life. They almost all do not have kink at home for various reasons. Usually this is because their partner is
Michelle Lacy
1 day ago4 min read
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Creating and Running the Order of Indomitus
For 11 years I have been running the Order of Indomitus, a very popular and world-famous weekend-long immersive femdom event. This has inspired many people to create their own immersive events and has also piqued the curiosity of many others who wonder about having their own similar type of event someday. With the 10th anniversary passing in 2025 and gearing up for our 2026 event, I decided to write an informative blog post about what it took to create Indomitus, the challeng
Michelle Lacy
1 day ago13 min read
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Overnight with a Mistress
There is something very mystical and intriguing about the idea of being with a Mistress all night in her studio. Many people book overnight appointments, and many others are curious about them. What kind of magic is happening overnight that is not happening in a regular afternoon appointment? What are you missing out on? Most people contact me for a wild, lengthy experience. Part of my professionalism, and something I pride myself on, is crafting an incredible experience for
Michelle Lacy
Mar 147 min read
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Mid Jan Update
My appointment special for early January has ended and it was a lot of fun. My only regret was not having enough time to stop at the beach with OOI-066, but perhaps at another time. January will conclude with me visiting the Siren House at the end of the month for private scenes, the Service School, and the Sadist Dinner/ play party. I am very much looking forward to this. Feb will be when the Delray studio kitchen and other renovations happen. I do not have exact dates yet,
Michelle Lacy
Jan 111 min read
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Special Scene Available Jan 2nd-8th
My January scenes are always long and fun, but they are also the ones postponed the most often due to unforeseen circumstances. As I often do when a big appointment of mine is postponed, I offer the space to another for a special rate. January 2nd to January 8th are the days that I now have available to take on a more elaborate session here at Eden Studios. While yes, I can and am always taking shorter scenes of several hours or so at a time, I offer a long experience to thos
Michelle Lacy
Dec 30, 20251 min read
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Dungeon Design Shift: Update
With a few days left of 2025, I wanted to reflect on how the year has been and where things are heading in terms of the changes to my studio. 2025 was a year of deep self-reflection and a lot of changes. I had started the year with a massive dungeon purge. Many big bags of toys, gear, and wardrobe that were rarely ever used and less favorable were hauled off. Sold or donated to others. This purge took a very long time, as I had to go through the items from my own Florida dung
Michelle Lacy
Dec 30, 20253 min read
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Extended Captivity Experiences Nov/Dec at Eden Studios
If you are not already aware, I am a lover of long bondage and captivity scenes. The captive who delights in the feeling of the tight bonds and blisses out from how tight their restraints feel is one of my favorite types of captives. The people who cannot get enough and feel that "no bondage time is too long." Some captives delight in constant kinky attention, whether that is through electrics, breath play, teasing, and much more. While constant attention is fun and well-sui
Michelle Lacy
Oct 31, 20253 min read
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Shifting Focus; Redesigning and Re-thinking a Dungeon
2025 is a year where I am working very hard to reorganize and restructure myself in every aspect, in order to have better days ahead where I can have a clear mind and less stress, helping me focus more on the experiences with my subs. I will go into this more in another post, but I wanted to talk about the re-design of my dungeon to start. This has begun with a huge, months-long purge of all items that I didn't use much/didn't like in my personal studio. 10+ construction bags
Michelle Lacy
Mar 25, 20253 min read
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Reading Comprehension is VERY Important
A year ago I had written a blog post which confused many who read it, causing them to assume that I had retired when I absolutely had not...
Michelle Lacy
Feb 9, 20252 min read
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My Jan, Feb and March 2025
The cool breezes mixing through the warm sunshine have infiltrated South Florida finally this Feb compared to the strange cold fronts...
Michelle Lacy
Feb 9, 20253 min read
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Exciting Experiences for 2025
If anyone is going to go all-out in femdom, 2025 should be your year, with exciting things in the works. If you are in a position where...
Michelle Lacy
Dec 27, 20243 min read
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Playing, Pausing and Reflecting
Many of you probably noticed that in the 2 year span from 2023-2025, I had not been doing the things that I have actively done in the...
Michelle Lacy
Dec 27, 20243 min read
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Slavery and letting slaves go
Slavery to a Mistress requires a lot of work for both people involved, to make the relationship work efficiently. Mistresses have a...
Michelle Lacy
Jun 21, 20233 min read
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Events at the New Estate
The new website for the estate will not be done for at least 2 months. However, many people are already asking me when events and parties...
Michelle Lacy
Dec 15, 20221 min read
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Back from Mexico
I am back from Wicked Retreats in Mexico and ready to conquer the world, one sub at a time. My personal Delray studio is very much usable...
Michelle Lacy
Nov 23, 20221 min read
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Welcome to my new blog
Due to circumstances out of my control, my old, very popular blog, had been deleted and much of my writing has been lost. I will rebuild,...
Michelle Lacy
Jul 1, 20221 min read
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